The reason Teenagers Think, feel and act like they know It All
What makes it all and why do they have to be so mean and disrespectful?
There is hardly anything as exasperating as a teen child rolling her eyes and saying �whatever� as she walks off to her room and her mum being so angry, would make an expression such as �Arrr!!! Wait until you have children of your own and see how it feels�
I choose to use a girl child for my illustration because I am a girl and also a teenager. It is not surprising that I am hormonal, dramatic, a lovely young woman in the making and I would probably grow up being wonderful. However, the years between adorable toddlers and wonderful compassionate adults are often trying, to say the least.
To examine teenagers, go back to the 3 year old whose favorite word is NO, add ten years and an assortment of hormones and you have proud, wise, stubborn, strong teenagers who think their parents are anti-Christ; sure it is hormones and they were all created with them. During the teen age, teenagers are far more interested in the opinions of their peers than that of their parents; because they feel free, safe and reason alike with their friends, while the parents on the other hand, are wishing for cleaner rooms, better grades, less fun and more responsibility. So everything becomes a crisis caused by the out-of-touch parents and their desire to crush the teen spirit in their teenagers through nagging, abuse and violence.
When misunderstanding occurs between adults and teenagers you don�t get the best out of them. So strive to understand their nature, acknowledge the fact that they were created to react like that within the teen years in a drive for independence which they eventually attain in attain adulthood. Do not frustrate their effort and ideas in discovering who they really are because most times they do not know the reason they think, feel or act that they know it all. So all they need from you is Love, care, counseling, Guidance, patience, and prayers to successfully graduate from the teen age without a life time regret

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